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Friday, April 8, 2011
"The number one reason for miscommunication"
Today, there are several conversations that exist where people are not on the same page. What contributes to this? One has to emphasize the increase of miscommunication because it can be the difference between success and failure. Most people do not want to want to compromise, hence the increase of failing marital relationships. If you cannot handle a person at their lowest point, then you do not deserve that person at their highest point. With that being said, as humans communication dictates our perception and is most vital at the first impression stage. What if a person fakes that first impression? I was talking to a friend the other day and made a comment regarding first impressions as quoted by the comedian Chris Rock. When you meet someone for the first time, you are not meeting them, you are meeting their representative. You do not meet the real person until the tough gets going. Honesty and true images of who you really are at first impression will save a lot of wasted time and money. Parallel communication is rarely established due to the lack of "real" impressions. As an avid finder of miscommunications, the best advice that I can give is to explore different situations with a person that you are pursuing. For instance, take a prospective partner to various places that he or she is not familiar with and her attitude will more than likely tell you what kind of person they are. Most people who are ungrateful will be reluctant to the idea, but people who are team players will be open and understanding to the idea.
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